Sunday, 22 February 2015

A daughter, Dad, and Ushamullapudi

A daughter in family is priceless! I am so glad my family has one such daughter. Be it a festival or celebration, it's incomplete with her. When she comes joy just gets doubled.

In mid January she wasn't well, and she decided to spend sometime with mom and dad at home. This home which she found after many months of research and tiring trips across the city, is now our sweet home. We will always be thankful to her. We always miss her at home. Dad is like an encyclopedia. He knows so much that I  can expect at least a brief answer on any subject. So he went out and bought homeo medicines for daughter and also for him. The very next morning on 21st Jan he got heart attack. He took the medicine but that did not give him relief.Quickly taking the stock of the situation, she called ambulance. After few calls she found one which was near home. It was still dark outside and she went out to check why it still did not arrive. When ambulance came, dad's friend who runs hotel at the corner of the street approached her and asked if she needs any help and also told Dad that he will be ok. They started and reached hospital which is about 15 kms away from our place. He was admitted in ICU, and brother in law also reached and they completed the formalities. I just cannot imagine that day without her at home. All happened between 6 and 9 in morning, and they told me miles away only after he was out of danger. I wish I could have been there for support, but she is a hero. She managed everything so well alone. I reached in the evening and met Dad in ICU. First thing he asked was who told me and why did I come. I asked him to take rest. I stayed all night near by hospital as they did not allow anyone to stay at hospital. Next 7 days it was same routine for us. Start in the morning and stay till late in evening, because it is far from our place and we were not in state to focus on anything. There were two time windows when we could meet him. He would not talk to us much, but with daughter he used to share that he is feeling like being in jail. He feels to go out for a smoke! Not sure what's the bond between a daughter and father, he shares freely with her. Relatives used to come for visiting him and supporting us. After successful surgery(angioplasty), he was discharged and was back home.

During this time at the hospital we met a doctor. He was the chairman of the hospital and has performed more than 10k surgeries. He graduated somewhere around 1964, and went aboard and was staying there. In 90's he also started something of his own in US. It was then when he lost his daughter Usha in an accident. During that time someone asked that country needs doctor like him back at home country because not everybody can afford treatment abroad. He came back to Hyderabad and started a non profit organization on the name of her daughter, Usha Mullapudi Cardiac Center. Being the chairman of such a big hospital he was still very much approachable. He would meet relatives of patients at canteen where doctors, staff, he himself and relatives take food. He would listen to their queries patiently and answer them humbly. There's a big picture of his daughter at the entrance of hospital. She looks like him. How great is his love for the daughter!

Daughters are always special!

 


Saturday, 7 February 2015

Yaar ki shaadi

Good morning Friends!

Wish you all a cheerful Sunday..

My morning started very early today at 4, with full of excitement :) It's best buddy's wedding. I should have been there early but was not well!

 

It's decade long friendship! One of the best friendships that has happened at Raisoni. I exactly do not remember the moment when it started but can trace it back to Khorambhi trip in first year of college. Then started the combined studies, stay at his place and Aunty making wonderful breakfast, lunch and dinner, taking care of my migraine with handmade medicine on forehead. Piyush was always the favourite student of maths teachers. The journey of four years at college made the friendship go through ups and downs. At one point when I thought that it's gone, it was Chaitanya who brought him back. Over issue at college, we stopped talking. I tried but it seemed that as an end to friendship. Hahaha this happens even outside girl circles ;) I will never forget that evening when Chaitanya and Piyush came to my place, after many weeks since we stopped talking. I do not know till date what Chaitanya told him(I will always be thankful for your gesture that day), but everything became normal after that. I now know whom to bring in when we will have fight next time! We did not find a chance though in last so many years. ;) One of the happiest moments was when Piyush got placed in Essar. I got the news, and was waiting for him to return back home. I was in tears (I am very sensitive and tears will start rolling every now & then ;) ) when I started on bike to his place to celebrate that night. I was so happy that day.

 

College was over and I was out for enjoying holidays in AP. Then date came and Piyush and UTK left in June for Gujrat. Then started the phone calls and I started missing the partner for late night movies, Chicken dinners as at both of our places Nonveg is not allowed at home, bike rides in Dharampeth, long chats outside home. Nagpur was boring as all the buddies left the place to chase their dreams at distant places. I used to wait for festivals because that's the only time when all friends will come back to Nagpur and we used to meet. Then we used to meet at Mumbai airport. Once we had chat for whole night. Hmm so many beautiful memories!

 

And today going to add one more! The Big day of his life, the Wedding!

Can't wait to post a selfie with Piyush and Tejeshree. :)